Wednesday, December 31, 2008

A Gingerbread Nightmare



I'm not sure what persuaded me to buy a clearanced gingerbread house set after Christmas, but today the boys talked me into letting them try it. Well, I couldn't get the walls to stay together and neither the boys nor I had the patience to keep at it, so we just laid everything flat and decorated the flat pieces. The icing is absolutely sickening sweet and combined with the candies that the boys have been sneaking while decorating, I can sense a lot of hyperactivity at the Hagen house later this afternoon.

Tuesday, December 30, 2008

Instant Puppets


At 2 1/2 Liam is starting to have an imagination and letting his creative side show through. While watching a tv show today, he took his socks off of his feet, put them on his hands and said, "Puppets!"

Not a lot of excitement around here

You have probably thought that with 5 days and no posts that I have been lax in updating the blog. However, things have been pretty boring around here with Ray working a lot (that is the downside to beginning a new job around the holidays) and the boys continuing to make messes. They have played with all their new toys and are back to acting somewhat bored again. Their movie obsession right now is "The Polar Express" which Ray DVRed with the new DVR he bought to celebrate getting his new job!

Thursday, December 25, 2008

Merry Christmas to all...








We celebrated Christmas eve with my side of the family as usual. My parents and sister and uncle came to our place for a few hours to exchange gifts and then we all went to my mom's brother's house in Brooklyn Center for the real celebration. At my uncle/aunt's house, we got to meet the two new baby second cousins -- baby Danielle is 3 weeks old and baby Ben is 12 days old. (You will see a photo below of the four Boyces -- we hadn't taken a family photo in probably 5-6 years because I am sure it was before I was pregnant with Connell.)

For Christmas Day, we got up at 6 am as usual and found the gift that Santa brought each of the boys (Santa typed the to/from tag this year since a little boy named Connell has been rather suspicious of Santa and we were afraid that he might catch on to either of our handwriting.) Connell was impressed that Santa knew their middle initials to put on the tag!!! We think we made it through another year with him still believing.

After taking a photo with mom and then dad by the tree, we were off to 8 am Mass where we spent our first time ever as a family (with no nursery). We truly do appreciate the church nursery for regular Sunday Mass -- that's all I can say and Ray would agree!

We came home and the boys played with some of their new toys while I made dinner. I threw together some soy sauce, orange juice, ginger, honey and garlic to marinade some pork chops. I had some cornbread stuffing in the freezer that we warmed up and I did a package of asparagus with some butter sauce. It turned out very well (can I admit to all of you that I totally forgot about Christmas dinner and so this morning I was scrambling trying to think of something to make and playing the game of...let's see what I have in the house and can throw together to look like a planned dinner). Life is so hectic with these two boys for some reason. We did commit a few years ago to saving Christmas Day for the four of us and we have talked that in a few years we would like to volunteer as a family at a soup kitchen or special dinner for the homeless. Right now the boys are simply too young.

Oh, and I can't go on without mentioning that since Connell got the game Mancala from the Boyces for Christmas, that he and I are Mancala fools now. Neither of us had never played and yet we are totally addicted. I like it better than some of the games that he suggests, so we'll see if we continue to play it in the coming days.

Ray has to go back to work tomorrow -- Friday.

Sunday, December 21, 2008

A Wacky Weekend



I came down with the flu bug late Friday and it lasted until late Saturday when I finally stopped vomiting. The weather was so bad on Saturday that Ray and the boys didn't even attempt the drive up to Little Falls for Christmas with his dad and his wife. Traveling was not advised, we saw many vehicles in the ditch already on the morning news and so they decided that it just was too risky to try. So we spend the day Saturday homebound and the boys had to listen to my vomiting (yuck!)

By Sunday, I was able to keep some food down and the weather had settled and so we went to Ray's mom's house in North St. Paul for a Christmas gathering. Ray's brother and family were there as well as his sister and family. We hadn't all been together since August of '07 so we got a photo of the 6 of us with his mom. We tried to get all 6 cousins together, but cousin Madison wanted no part so her brother Nic had to stand alone! Here are the photos.

(the inlaws...Chris and Christine Albright (Ray's sister), Juliana and Clint Hagen (Ray's brother), us in the front row with his mom, Sue)

(Nic, Trent with Liam on lap, Nichole with Connell on lap)

Friday, December 19, 2008

Monopoly already?!?!??!


Connell begged and begged for me to teach him how to play Monopoly today. With a few distractions for Liam (including some DVDs), we managed to play a game for about an hour and 40 minutes. He did quite well. We had all the properties purchased by the end and Connell had 5-6 houses on the red ones. I had purchased all of the yellow ones, but between paying rent and landing on the "pay taxes" space, I couldn't get any houses for my properties. Connell was sad to quit and now he is obsessed with the game. He is even playing it by himself (pretending to be 2 players and the banker) and also creating his own fake money! I didn't think that I would be diving into these types of games quite so soon...

Thursday, December 18, 2008

"Happy Birthday, Jesus" party (year #2)




We just came back from our second annual "Happy Birthday, Jesus" party at the St. John Neumann preschool. Connell was again located middle front (not sure why) and sang and did the actions for most of the program. We all had cake downstairs afterwards to celebrate.

(in case you don't recognize Connell, he is in the red shirt and dark pants)

Transitions, transitions

It's been quite a change for me readjusting to Ray being gone 12 hours of the day. His commute is very long especially with all the snow we have been getting this winter. Yesterday it took him about 15-20 minutes just to make it out of the industrial park that VISI is located in and about the same amount of time to make it to the highway. The evening commute took about 1 hr 50 minutes total. Ugh!

In addition to Ray being back at work, he also notified me this morning that the new insurance that we will be covered under does not have an agreement with the clinic that we have been attending for 13 years. So we are forced to change clinics. I have had the same family practice doctor for 13 years and have become pretty attached to him. He is the boys' doctor as well -- they have only seen him since birth. Ray is probably the least attached to his doctor of the four of us, not to mention the fact that Ray is better with changes/transitions! In the next few weeks I will be searching for another doctor/clinic for us at least for the next 1 1/2 years. When I go back in the fall of 2010, perhaps we would change to the school district's insurance plan for our family coverage and maybe we would return to our clinic. Or perhaps we will like the new one better?!?!?

Wednesday, December 17, 2008

Stomach Bug?!?!?


Liam woke in the night and was throwing up. I changed his sheets and then tried to stay on top of the mess as he continued to vomit a few more times. He is still gagging and vomiting this morning. The question is whether he has a bug that is going around or if the Pepto Bismol that he got into yesterday made him sick. I told Ray that the Pepto Bismol should have had the opposite effect, so who knows?!?!? Timing isn't great -- not only is Ray now gone to work long hours, but tomorrow is Connell's Christmas singing show at church and so I hope he doesn't catch whatever it is! Not to mention our two Christmas celebrations this weekend.

Tuesday, December 16, 2008

I'm at risk of losing my job here at home...

Just since Ray had been home, we had taken down all the gates since Liam would just help himself through them anyway. We still left babyproofed knobs on some door knobs since we prefer to keep Liam (and Connell) out of certain rooms. Well, for a few minutes this afternoon Liam was being quite quiet playing by himself upstairs as Connell was writing at the table so I figured I better check on him. Unbeknownst to me, Liam had broken the babyproofed handle off of our bedroom door and gotten into things. He got to an entire tube of Orajel and squeezed it all over the stairs (it comes out orange if anyone is interested). He also opened a babyproofed container of Children's Pepto Bismol and since he was chomping on something, I counted the pills left in the bottle. There were still 22 of 24, so he must have eaten 2 at most. I hope he enjoyed the wintergreen flavor. He also got to some games that I had hidden in our room because previously the boys had tokens and little parts all over the house. Well, you guessed it -- they were again all over the landing upstairs. So I am mad as a hatter and calling out to him, "naughty boy" and he is countering it with "No, I'm a good boy!" Ugh!

(update...Connell admitted to breaking off the handle and letting Liam into our room. That sounds more like it although I totally missed all of that action. The boys can be very good at playing upstairs together and then again, they can get into mischief like today! Perhaps Connell is trying to make a statement because he didn't want daddy to go back to work. He liked having him around. That would be nice if we didn't have to pay the mortgage and eat!)

Everything is fair game....




Now that it is back to reality for me and with winter upon us, I am thinking of activities we haven't done in a while. The Magnetix were hidden in our bedroom since Liam used to put the metal balls in his mouth and so I thought they might be worth a try this afternoon. The boys had fun for a few minutes playing with them and then wanted to take pictures of their creations. Connell got a photo of his "glob" of magnets and then Liam got a nice photo of 3 of their 4 feet instead of the magnets. Cute though. (I did crop the photos for the blog though)

Back to Work for Ray

6 weeks after his lay-off, Ray is back to work. I'll be curious to see how his first day at VISI went. Given the snowy weather and the long commute, he is planning on going straight from work to his Tuesday night employment support group in Burnsville. He is slated to tell them about his new job and bring cookies to celebrate. That means that my first day back to being a full-time stay-at-home mom might end up being about 14 hours with no break! With Liam's refusal to nap, it could be a tough day! I think you would call it "trial by fire".

Cookies



Whoever invented the dough already made and broken into squares and ready to put onto the pan is a genius! I know that it isn't as much fun as baking from scratch, but my boys get flour and sugar all over the kitchen and it isn't worth the hassle. So I got a good deal on some chocolate chip and sugar cookie "ready to bake" packages at ALDI and we have been having a few each day.

Saturday, December 13, 2008

First Sledding Adventure of the Year



Ray, Connell and Liam invited our friends Sammy and Joey over to sled behind our house this afternoon. It is a little warm for sledding, but they had fun nonetheless. I think Ray realized that since he starts his new job this week that things will get quite busy and so he better take advantage of the down time now!

Friday, December 12, 2008

Disney on Ice

We used our free tickets and attended the Disney on Ice production at the Xcel this morning. I don't have any photos since I discovered as we came back to our car in the parking lot that my camera had fallen out and was laying on the cold ground during the entire performance. Luckily no one stole it.

The program was broken into 4 sections -- "The Lion King", "The Little Mermaid", "Lilo and Stitch" and "Peter Pan". The boys did ok for the first and the second, but really got antsy during the "Lilo and Stitch" part. Then there was an intermission so we took them out to walk around a little bit. They did ok, but I would have really enjoyed the performance much better without them next to me standing up/sitting down, walking back and forth. The "Peter Pan" part got a little long for them.

I think I really was the family member who enjoyed it the most since I loved ice skating as a child and combined with roller skating last week, I am on a skating kick right now. I always love a good musical performance, too.

Thursday, December 11, 2008

Liam's lack of naps starts catching up...


After three days of absolutely no naps, Liam was caught resting underneath the dining room table this afternoon.

Ray Accepted a Job Offer!

Ray was offered a job Wednesday afternoon and accepted. He will be working for VISI (rhymes with "dizzy" or "busy") -- a business class web hosting and data center colocation company. It is located at 169 and 494 in Eden Prairie which will be a bit of a commute (but Ray has always had a long commute). He will again be a product manager. This company only has about 60 employees -- whereas ADC had nearly 10,000 worldwide. There will be very little travel and regular business hours.

We are extremely excited about the job! He starts next week which means that he will have had 6 weeks of time between his job loss and new start date.

Now I have to get reaccustomed to being the only stay-at-home parent which might be challenging given that Liam has appeared to have totally given up his nap. He turned 2 1/2 on Monday and that was the last day he napped. Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday, I tried to get him to go down with little success.

Tomorrow morning we will be going downtown to the Xcel Energy Center as a family to see Disney on Ice. Will let you know how that goes...

Wednesday, December 10, 2008

Boys will be boys...



Well, Ray has been busy networking, interviewing and applying for more jobs. Connell and Liam are preparing for the holidays. Liam is being his usual self in his spare time (like getting into the sunscreen and slathering it all over himself). The Christmas tree is up although the boys are skating on thin ice....Liam took one long piece of tinsel off this morning and had it wrapped around himself like a skirt. I did not take a picture of that though!

Sunday, December 7, 2008

Reconnecting


This morning after church, I drove to Bloomington to meet up with a childhood friend, Barb. She and I grew up across the street from each other and spent countless hours at each other's houses. We hadn't seen each other in over 18 years. It was so much fun to reminisce and simply catch each other up to speed. She is married and works for Target in IT and lives in Maple Grove. She has a son who is 7 and 2 nearly-grown step-daughters.

Saturday, December 6, 2008

A Morning at Michael's




We went to Michael's Craft Store this morning in Apple Valley where they had some Christmas fun for kids. The boys did some crafts and then Santa was there. Liam wasn't thrilled about wearing the reindeer ears though, nor did he want to go anywhere near Santa. Our little extroverted Connell ran right up to Santa and was talking his ear off. (Sorry that the picture turned out so dark!)

Wednesday, December 3, 2008

No Broken Limbs


So my 3 friends and I went roller skating tonight -- I hadn't been in at least 20 years -- perhaps more. It came right back to me and I really got into it and enjoyed it. This was a 18+ night and so there were about 16-20 total adults there. A few of the regulars were talking to me (yes, some strange guys), but my ladies didn't bail me out so I had to respond to their questions. I was invited back and also invited to skate in their little group! When I told the one guy that I hadn't skated in 20 years, he said, "What -- were you 4 back then, sweetie?" It was really a blast though, but I know that we will all be feeling it in the morning.

(this is Monique, Katie, myself & Vicki showing our legs for you!)

Photographers in the Making?!?!



We let Connell and Liam both try and take a photo of us tonight. Can you guess who took which? Oh, well -- I guess it is a giveaway since Connell is actually the focus in one of them although he wasn't supposed to be. And Liam's finger made it into the picture too! :-)

The Monster Mash


We found a Halloween CD that I have with the "Monster Mash" on it and the boys are now crazy about it! They were doing the Monster Mash all evening. Not sure why the bare chests though...

Sunday, November 30, 2008

What a Weekend!



Well, it was a long weekend with very few plans and trying to limit spending any money. We made it I guess. Here are the boys sharing a moment. We also started our Advent wreath ceremony this evening and so you can see Ray and the boys around the candles.

Friday, November 28, 2008

Thanksgiving Day recap



We drove up to Annandale (which took us 1 hr 30 mins each direction) to Ray's aunt Nancy's house. Most of that side of the family was able to make it (but not Ray's brother nor sister). Our boys were the only ones in their age group and so they got lots of attention and tore around with lots of energy (as usual). Liam took a special interest in his new baby cousin (2nd cousin) Alaina and was trying to play with her and hold her. She is 5 months now and absolutely adorable. We all enjoyed a nice meal, probably ate too much and had a nice time catching up with family.

Thursday, November 27, 2008

Happy Thanksgiving to everyone

And that's coming from a family of turkeys - ha, ha!

Ray has still been busy networking and searching for job possibilities. He has an interview on Tuesday the 2nd and then will have a 2nd interview for a different company either later next week or the next.

The biggest excitement for me is this Wednesday's Ladies' Night Out at the roller rink. I haven't roller skated in years although I was pretty good back in the 80s when I went religiously. Ray is afraid that my bones are not as tough now so we are both praying that I don't get hurt. I think that it will be a blast and I will try and get some photos to post here and on Facebook. In the last month I got pretty interested in Facebook and so if there are those of you out there that read my blog and are also on Facebook, feel free to invite me as a friend. I'm listed as Clare Boyce Hagen.

The boys are anxious for Advent to start this weekend. The Advent chain and wreath are ready to go for our prayer services and nightly countdown. I had a "happy mom moment" when making the chain with Connell as I suggested that we put a red and green link at the end of the purple and pink chain because they are Christmas colors. Connell asked me, "What's Christmas? Oh, mom, you mean Jesus' birthday!" I realized that last year Ray and I were both very mindful of trying to call it Jesus' birthday all the time at home to try and compete with the secular Christmas images that are bombarding our society.

Saturday, November 22, 2008

Update

Well, sorry that I have been so bad in keeping the blog updated. We are busy with preschool, church activities, ECFE classes, etc. Ray is still spending much of the day on the computer looking for a job. He has had a few leads.

Connell and I went to a program that is sponsored by Target and presented by the St. Paul Chamber Orchestra this morning. It was about woodwind instruments and he enjoyed the activities and the mini-concert. It was in Apple Valley.

Liam has been his spirited self. He somehow hit one of my wall pictures shattering the glass in it today. I am convinced that by the end of this winter the boys will have wrecked my house. Sigh.

We had parent-teacher conferences with Connell's preschool teacher yesterday. She didn't tell us anything new. It's funny how Connell recently turned four and we already know him so well. When Miss Wendy asked us how we thought Connell was doing, we rattled off the entire speech and she was in hysterics. She said that we know him pretty well! Of course it is no secret that he has trouble sitting still and keeping his attention on the task at hand -- especially at circle time.

Ray is loving his "commute" (ha, ha)! We see him quite a bit during the day (breaks from the computer) and he is actually making some lefse this weekend for fun. It's pretty time-consuming and challenging, but he is up for the challenge given that he isn't working.

Monday, November 17, 2008

Boys, Boys, Boys



I've been amazed at the energy my boys have had lately -- especially realizing that it is only November 17th and I have a winter to go. But I wanted to post a photo of each since I have been focusing so much on Ray's job search and other problems that I haven't been giving the boys enough press :-)

So here is Connell after finishing his Advent chain for the year. We started this tradition last year and did it both for Advent and Lent. Connell has been begging for weeks to make a new one and so I finally gave in. This year he was able to totally cut all the strips himself and then write the numbers for the dates. He also made a picture that was supposed to resemble a candle on our four Sundays (to remind us to do our candle lighting ceremony) and then I stapled them as he handed them to me. He was so proud that he was able to do everything himself this year. Now he is anxious to start cutting off a link a day, but unfortunately he has to wait 13 days for that!

Here is Liam being goofy and trying to fit into the laundry basket. I was trying to get my laundry folded and put away and he was making things difficult by monopolizing the basket. It was a cute picture though!

Saturday, November 15, 2008

It's the little joys!

After Connell started off so poorly with his swimming lessons about 2 months ago, I had very low expectations. But combined with a big change in his attitude and a few extra practices with daddy at open gym on Sunday afternoons, we are pleased to announce that he passed all the requirements for preschool swim #1 and has been promoted to preschool swim #2. I couldn't be happier for him since this was his first big challenge in life and he managed to work through it. He was all excited to tell me to sign him up for the next session when he got home today.

Unfortunately, the chlorine really dries out his skin so even though he no longer has the dairy allergy, his eczema is worse than ever. We are trying to be diligent in applying Hydrocortisone and Vanicream to help keep him hydrated.

Our other newest joy is the fact that we finally got rid of Liam's pacifier. Granted he was only allowed to have it in his bed from about 1 yr of age and on, but he used it every nap and every night. Last week he started trying to sneak it downstairs and we would reprimand him and tell him to take it back to his room. Well, one night he couldn't find it so he had to go to bed without it. He was a little sad, but no real tears. I found it shortly after he went to bed and disposed of it and that is the end of the pacifier. He does use his limited vocabulary to say, "Buy paci mommy" but I just refuse and he manages just fine.

Friday, November 14, 2008

Grandma's House



Wednesday afternoon we went to Ray's mom's house in North St. Paul. On the way to her place, we stopped at the Xcel Energy Center so that I could turn 4 free vouchers I had won at Stretch and Stroll this past week into tickets for Disney on Ice. We now have 4 lower deck tickets to the performance at 10:30 am on Friday, December 12th and so it might work out well if Ray still is unemployed at that point so that we can attend as a family. Connell is excited to see how well Mickey and Donald can ice skate!

While at Ray's mom's house, the boys played with all the toys and also played ball with her boyfriend, Tom. The three boys also looked at some photos of daddy Ray when he was young. Grandma made a yummy soup for supper and even served ice cream for dessert. We hadn't been up to her place in probably a year or more so it was nice to visit them.

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

Keeping Warm


The temperature has dropped into the 30s, we have snow on the ground and so we are spending much more time indoors. Ray has been busy looking for a job which is going to be time consuming and draining to say the least. The boys and I are trying to continue with our normal life as much as possible although we know that the boys can sense some of our stress. Here is a cute photo of them although it looks like Connell is strangling Liam!

Saturday, November 8, 2008

Nothing New

It's only been a week and so of course no job leads yet, but Ray has been busy networking and looking for postings online. You will be happy to know that he isn't just sitting around eating bonbons and watching ESPN! We all four have colds and for me I know that it is because of the stress (and this is my worst cold in more than 2 1/2 years). I have to keep reminding myself that "it was only a job" and that at least we have our health. Something will turn up at some point.

Ray took Connell to swimming lessons and then I get the boys for 2 hours as he attends a Community Ed class to learn how to make lefse. Although we hope it's not true, he said that he might have lots of time on his hands now to make lefse.

Wednesday, November 5, 2008

How Life is Changing For Us



And I am not referring to the recent election results. As most of you who read our blog probably already know from other sources, Ray was laid-off Monday from nearly 11 years at ADC Telecommunications. They let approximately 150-160 people go that morning. We had suspected it for a couple of weeks and so luckily we had mentally prepared for it.

However, as we said goodbye that morning, Ray left and I went downstairs to check email when I immediately heard a "waterfall". I ran into the office to see tons of dripping water through the ceiling onto the computer desk. I screamed and panicked and picked up the phone to call Ray on his cell. He was less than a mile away and turned around to come back to deal with the results of the deluge. Turns out that the garbage disposal seal had come off and so all the water that was going into the sink was actually leaking into the cupboard and then down into the ceiling and onto the computer. You might be able to see in the pictures how soaked the ceiling tiles were. I thought it was odd that at about 6:30 that morning I had filled the sink to wash dishes and by the time I turned to wash them, the water was gone. So I refilled the sink. Now you know where 2 full sinks of soapy water ended up -- on the computer.

So we covered everything with a tarp and tried to sponge/mop up much of it and immediately inspected the garbage disposal to find the problem. Ray was here for about an hour and as things got under control and he was about to leave, he got called on his cell from his boss. They were wondering where he was (of course they were wondering because they were trying to lay him off and he wasn't there yet!) So off he went and a few hours later he called with the bad news.

Ray is very positive about the whole situation. He is trying to network and using the Internet to check out prospects. The severance package they gave him is generous although the insurance runs out in December which leaves us having to find a private policy or something. We can't go without insurance with the winter upon us and two little boys not to mention all the allergy concerns with Connell. So we are dealing with the situation although it will take some effort on our part to make sure that boys are experiencing some sense of normalcy and not feeling like they need to take on our family problems. Connell is starting to wonder why Ray is always here when we leave for class, come back, etc.

In addition to the flood and the lay-off, I was very stressed/concerned that the computer would be fried therefore leaving us in a bad position (Ray had to relinquish his computer and cell phone that morning leaving the home phone and computer as his only connection to the job world). Add to that the fact that a neighbor boy accidentally hit Connell in the head with a snow shovel leaving one of the biggest goose eggs that Connell has ever gotten (Liam has had several, but Connell has had few), I thought that the day was never going to end. Connell tried to be positive about things and so when Ray and I looked at each other and asked what other bad things could happen, Connell responded, "an earthquake maybe". That was the brightest moment of the day! We never did get the earthquake luckily and so we are fortunate about that.

Will keep you posted....(oh, but thank God those signed baseballs and Bobbleheads made it though the flood ok! :-) )

Saturday, November 1, 2008

Shower for my cousin



I co-hosted a shower for my cousin Kim this afternoon. She is expecting a baby girl in mid-December. Here is a photo of Kim and I and also one of my sister (Neysa), my mom and myself.

Friday, October 31, 2008

Trick or Treat

The boys went trick or treating at 7 houses (we set the limit as 8 houses this year).

Then we sat on the front stoop and the boys dug into their candy and we waited for the other trick-or-treaters.


Soon they were both on a sugar high and dancing a jig! Liam asked to go to bed about 6:45 and then we made Connell go in about 7:15. Lots of people commented on the costumes so the time spent on them was worth it to me.